Just came back to my room…. very busy today… was reading other interesting blogs for the past few days… i know i am kinda LATE in blogging 
Wow.. u can really know a person just by reading his or her blog even though u never meet him/her before.. but of course under the circumstances that what is stated in the blog is true lar Since when people can actually decipher someone by reading their blog? I wonder… but that is just my feeling about the blogger.. it might not be true…
Dunno what happened these few days… heard a lot of stories about relationship… most are sad stories but still have some good news about people taking the plunge.. In life people are searching for someone who can be his/her soulmate and wish to spend the rest of his/her life with that lucky person.. the thing is how to do u know that he/she is your soulmate? These are some common reasons as well as some of my good friends’ opinions:
- can imagine the future with him/her
- u know that u cant live without him/her
- both of u have the same interest, same thinking or even the same GOAL in life
- he/she makes a promise to be with u forever
- he/she is the only person who understands u well and able to COMMUNICATE with u
- it is the FEELING u have whenever u are with him/her
we dont have a ‘bible for relationship’ then what is guiding us to come to that conclusion? or we just follow our heart? I wonder….:) Perhaps none of the above can actually answer that question well…However, no matter what the answer is, the most important is that u are happy with ur man/woman.. i think that is the CORE in relationship.. to be happy with someone u love
To all my friends, may all your dreams come true Pray hard that Cupid does shower his arrow to the people who wish to be loved, i mean the eligible bachelors and bachelorettes
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Hey, you have my vote on “we dont have a ‘bible for relationship’” …eh, eh, eh…dun be happy yet..let me finish…
Definitely I do not agree on “both of u have the same interest, same thinking or even the same GOAL in life”…I din involve in relationship until after I graduated from college, but when we were in college, our lecturer inspire me on relationship, he reminded us to keep in mind that sometimes 2 individuals with different interest, way of thinking might be a better companion…
and the statement proven when I’m in relations…and yes…individuals who are different is actually communicate better especially for someone too confident like me…when dealing with sth I know better…he’ll compromise while dealing with those I’m not so good at…it’s easier for met o trust his profession and respect his decision…
Well..I’m not saying those with same interest and thinking can’t work at all..everything has exception in human life..too unpredictable..so friends…good luck….
Hmmm..an interesting topic discussion..as for me, dun think all this are essential as i think FATE plays a role in every relationship…u wun get to know a person unless u involved in a relation, but by the time u indulge in a relation to get to know a person in a better way, ull then find out he’s not the rite one for u…at the end, ur the one who suffers most..n the funny part is…ull get blame for it when u know the relation doesnt work..
so its easy to be said than done..sometimes human tend to be nice b4 marriage or maybe we wun know the exact time HUMAn changed…so just pray hard…:)
Love is just like a Gamble, some r lucky that they met the rite one n their love nvr change….some were tremendously in love initially, in the end tear apart n wanting to commit suicide…n even the Great Profesor in the world can hv failure in marriage…so its not really depend on how smart u choose the partner…its ALL ABOUT FATE…:))
So, who do u wan to blame if u cant find a good partner? How do u conclude that he is suitable for u until uve stay with him long enough..maybe till u hv ur last breath?
So..No one can know their future…Just pray hard that human doesnt change…
Hmmm…:)
When it comes to relationship, there are no rigid rules… Lucky ones may experienced ‘Love At First Sight’ and live happily ever after. But that is like one in a million. For the rest of us, we just have to go through the trial and error process. Of course we have our share of heartbreaks along the way, but the reward is worth all the tears..
To me, soulmates may or may not share the same interest, as opposite sometimes attracts… The most important thing is to be able to find comfort and happiness with that person. And I believe that all great lasting relationships involve some work from both parties in order to keep the spark going. As long as there is commitment and trust, all obstacles can be overcome.
